What Do You Do?
I have searched for this answer for 21 years
For years, I searched for the right words. I tried to define what I do.
I’m a coach. A mother. A wife. A friend. A leader. A peer. A human.
But what do I do?
The question has been unanswerable, until today, when my heart answered—not with strategy, not with branding, not with logic.
But with the truth that has always been there.
I minister love.
That’s it. That’s everything.
I walk people from fear to love.
Through hurt, through trauma, through conflict, through illness, through scarcity, through shame.
Through the moments when everything feels stuck, hopeless, and uncertain.
Because when love is present—everything changes.
Not always in the way we expect.
Not always in the way we would choose.
But always in the way that brings us home.
Love is the medicine.
Love is the path.
Love is the transformation.
And when we surrender to love—when we allow ourself to be ministered by love—our health and wellbeing, our self-image, our leadership, our relationships and our wealth shift in ways we could never predict or imagine.
This is my life. This is my work. This is my devotion.
Whether it’s healing, leadership, money, purpose, or relationships, my work is to walk with people from fear to love—to minister the presence of love until everything shifts.
This is leadership from the abundance of who we are, not from who we believe we need to be.
Because in the world of leadership, we are taught to push, strive, and control. Hustling is seen as a virtue and thus we’re told that to be successful, we must exert force. We must do whatever it takes to make things happen.
But at what cost?
In my former Human Resource Directorship days (prior to 2004) I remember reading a business article about the person who founded the Sydney Harbour Bridge Climb. He proudly told us that the success of this venture came at all costs, even that of his family. The article framed him as an inspiring leader for others to follow! I remember being floored reading this!
What if the truest form of leadership is rooted not in effort, but in surrender?
What if presence, trust, intuition and the state of surrender create even greater results, not only at the level of impact but also profundity?
I have so many stories I could share with you that demonstrate the efficacy of those premises.
For a happy, purpose-filled, peaceful and powerful life our fundamental responsibility is to
✨ Turn fear into love.
✨ Turning judgment into love.
✨ Turning separation into love.
✨ Turning confusion, anger, and resentment into love.
✨ Turning hurt, trauma, and even the unforgivable into love.
Because love is the medicine that transforms darkness into light.
It is the element that is absent when we forget who we are.
And when we remember—when we minister love—everything changes.
If you feel called to walk this path with me—to step into coaching not as a strategy, but as a homecoming to love—I invite you to reach out.
This is the shift that changes everything.
The next 9 Week Meditation/Activation Program themed “Surrendered” will commence next Monday 7 April. It is the most perfect way to begin or deepen your embodiment with the premise of this article. You do not need to attend live as the meditations/activations are recorded to use in your own personal time. You can learn more and register here.
Tomorrow 3 April at 10am - 11:30am Sydney AEDT time I’ll be delivering a free Activation “The Potentiality Activation”. Register here.